Nostalgia is a tough thing. The desire to sink into happier memories of the past, especially in the face of difficult times, is strong. My kids tease me about it as I get older because I sometimes sound like an old man grumbling about “the good ol’ days”. And they are right to do so.
Nostalgia, if left unchecked, can be like a “mental opium”: pleasant, addicting, but it separates us from reality.
Once gone, the face of youth vanishes irrevocably. We cannot bring back the past. When suddenly confronted with impermanence, we cannot bring back the past.
The Shushōgi, chapter one, fascicle three
This longing for the past only seems to get worse with age. Some of us even play old video games from 25 years ago. 😌
By itself, this really isn’t bad thing: after all, the more experiences you accumulate, the more you have to look back upon. Also, appreciating old things isn’t bad either (“so old it’s new!”). But if you indulge in nostalgia, you long for the past more and more, at the expense of the present and the future. Further, it tends to gloss over the past in a way that makes it look rosy. I loved playing Advanced Dungeons and Dragons as a teen, but when I look at the material now, it’s a messy, unpolished game with some crazy loopholes, and dated stereotypes. It was a great game for its time, but better games exist now.
I personally don’t really miss my high school days very much, but I do enjoy reflecting back upon college sometimes. Sometimes I cringe at my young 20’s self, but that’s OK too. Looking back on the past, we can grow from it.
But I guess what I am saying is that the best years of your life aren’t always in the past. In fact, there’s much you can do here and now: new things to learn, new things to discover, new futures to build. If Star Trek teaches us one thing, is that the future can be bright.
So, while it’s nice for me to go back and play classic Castlevania from time to time, there are also new games out there, and new experiences just waiting over the horizon.
Then again, an even better thing you can do is to take time to appreciate this moment. What you do here and now, what you think and what you feel towards others now is probably the most important. It will not come again, but its effects will continue to ripple into the future. Plant good seeds now, and you’ll have plenty of good fruit in the future…

















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